Friday, October 02, 2009

Lifting Up the Family and Friends of Randy Reed

A friend and neighbor passed away yesterday. He had been battling cancer for some time. I knew him well. I know his family well. They have taken numerous lessons and been active in various tennis events with me over the years. Shared experiences like watching kids grow up creates a special bond between parents and coaches. It's sort of an 'extended' family thing... Today I mourn the loss and rejoice in the life of one of my extended tennis family members, Randy Reed.

I'm grateful to Randy for leaving behind the memory of a very good tennis parent, a loving father, and devoted husband to those who remember him. Indeed, Randy was an inspiration.

Randy's passing stirs me inside. I ask myself what kind of memories and legacy will be left behind when I pass into eternity? What kind of impression will be left on family and friends? Right now I'm questioning my own mortality and taking my own life's inventory.

The sobering fact is that no one knows exactly when their life will be expected of them. We MUST act while there is still time to address the relationships in our lives.

Here's the Big One: How's your relationship with Jesus Christ?

I've been thinking about Randy and praying for he and his family for months. I'm thinking now about those he left behind. I'm especially lifting up Randy's wife and children this morning. And I praise the Lord that we all can look forward to being reunited with Randy in eternity later on.

To Cindy, Brad, and Stephanie Reed: My family loves You. We're lifting you up. May God give you grace to carry on and comfort, peace, and healing in the days ahead. The Chadwell family grieves right along with you and We're praying for an incredible out pouring of compassion from family, friends, and neighbors.

May God bless You and keep you close in his loving arms.

In Jesus' name I pray, Amen.